Foster Parents Who Took A Chance On A Shy Cat

Nicole Haggerty



We sign up for whoever needs us. Sometimes it’s the easiest, sweetest kitten. Sometimes it’s an older cat hoping for a new start. And sometimes… it’s a cat or kitten who has never known what human love feels like.

Taking a chance on a shy cat comes with challenges.They don’t understand affection the way we do—not yet.

But that doesn’t mean they don’t know what love is. 
Their love is slow, gentle, and earned—and there’s nothing in the world quite like it!

To them, love is a warm, safe place to sleep.  Love is a full food dish, clean water, and toys to play with.

Love is simply feeling safe for the very first time. 
And slowly, over days or weeks or months, humans start to become part of that love too.

They realize you’re the provider, the protector… and they’re grateful in their own quiet ways.  You start finding toys tucked into your shoes—tiny gifts left just for you.

You notice a new sleeping spot on the edge of the couch where they feel comfortable enough to rest. You hear the soft rumble of a purr from across the room. All of this happens before a single intentional touch.

And then one night… they climb into your lap.

Maybe they didn’t realize it was you at first.
Maybe they were just feeling brave. But that moment—that trust—is a milestone like no other.

Adopting or fostering a shy cat might not look like the “typical” experience.

But is it rewarding? Absolutely.